It's a question that is often asked when dealing with infidelity, the injured party will want the relationship to go back to the way it was before, in effect, to turn back the clocks.
As is often the case, when someone is the victim of infidelity they will look back at the time before the affair and only remember the good times, choosing to overlook the signs that may have led to it.
The truth is, you do not want your marriage to go back to way things were. In any affair, the cheater has to take full responsibility for their actions, or there really is no chance of going forward, but if everything was ok before the affair, it wouldn't have happened right?
Romanticizing the past will not fix the present. The only way to heal the pain of infidelity is to leave the past where it is - in the past. Such a traumatically emotional experience will never be forgotten, but unbelievable as it sounds, it is possible to get to a secure and blissfully happy place in your marriage where the affair will no longer haunt your every waking hour, but be a distant memory, only revisited on the rarest of occasions.
There is no short route to this place in your marriage, only a commitment on both sides to build new memories and a stronger emotional bond. It's a fact that many couples that do this will have a stronger marriage after an affair, than they ever had before.
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